Not having kids is often called “selfish,” but that’s an unfair label. Choosing not to become a parent can be a responsible and thoughtful decision, and people deserve the space to decide what their own future should look like.
Many people assume everyone should eventually become a parent, but that isn’t realistic anymore, as choosing not to have kids is a personal decision shaped by finances, mental health, career goals, and lifestyle. Instead of calling that choice “selfish,” we should recognize that knowing what you can handle is actually responsible.
One of the biggest reasons for choosing not to have kids isn’t selfish; it’s the financial reality behind raising a child. Many teens already understand how expensive parenting can be, and they believe people should be prepared before taking on that responsibility. Zoe Smith ‘27 said, “You need to be financially stable, have a roof over your head, and a car.” Her point shows that being realistic about money isn’t avoiding responsibility; it’s practicing it. When someone knows they can’t provide the stability a child needs, choosing not to be a parent is a responsible and thoughtful decision.
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