I have breakdowns over my future every day

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Photo by Nedaat Masiat ‘26: Skylah Clarke ‘28 looks stressed while looking at her Common App, AP Classroom, FAFSA, and Naviance.

By Nedaat Masiat ’26

It’s finally the second semester of senior year, meaning we’re nearing the end of college applications! Conversations that once revolved around weekend plans are now centered on deadlines and portals. By fall, seniors are juggling personal statements, supplemental essays, and requests for recommendations. While trying to keep up with classes and jobs, college application season can create an overwhelming sense that there is no room to breathe.

Don’t worry, this feeling isn’t uncommon. College applications often come with the belief that one wrong move can determine the rest of your life. The question “Do you know where you’re going to college?” evokes a feeling of impending doom, and social media only makes it worse. Peers post their acceptance reaction videos, making comparison virtually unavoidable. It can feel like everyone has their whole lives planned out, and I don’t even know what I’m eating for dinner tonight.

When Hailey Cartagena ‘26 was asked about her experience with college apps, she expressed, “I am constantly checking my email every day waiting for my decisions to come out.” This takes a big toll on students’ mental health. In a system built on competition, it’s easy to forget that rejection is not a reflection of your intelligence or potential. It’s important to remember that this is only one chapter of your life, not the entire story.

While it can feel like every decision is life-or-death, taking time for yourself is necessary. Spend time doing things you love with the people you love. Friends who understand your stress make the whole thing feel a lot less isolating. My friends and I do things like watch new movies, go on long scenic drives with a good playlist, and just try to avoid talking about school at all costs.

Photo by Nedaat Masiat ’26: Hugs with Hailey Cartagena ’26 make everything better!

You are more than an applicant; you are a person with passions, relationships, and a life beyond your admission decision. It’s crucial to remind yourself that this does not determine your future. Regardless of where you end up next fall, your worth isn’t defined by an acceptance letter or a rejection email.